my boyfriend and i have been together for just over a year officially, but more like a year and a half (we are 23).
we are currently long distance but i see him almost every other weekend when he drives to see me, and he plans to move to my city as soon as he finds a job.
he talked about doing new years eve in new york with his friends, and i didn't have a problem with it because i was going to be far away with my family over christmas break.
but it turns out he might be visiting me in my hometown from dec 26-dec30th.
i mentioned that he could just stay for new years eve...and he doesn't seem to want to.
he spent new years eve last year with the same friends in new york.
one of them lives in asia, and he doesn't get to see him much. and one is in the military but he has seen him several times this year.
i understand wanting to see your friends (esp. the ones that live very far away), but would you be upset that your boyfriend didn't want to stay with you for new years? i am pretty upset about it...am i just being crazy?
edit- i just spent thanksgiving with his family. and i am in school (where his entire family lives) and he works and has a car, so that's why he always comes to see me. can't afford to go to new york.